Tuesday, 26 March 2013

Maternity Nurse qualifications


Maternity Nurse provides you with an invaluable source of support and knowledge once you have had your baby and arrived home.




Their aim is to leave you feeling relaxed, happy and fully prepared for the future stages in your baby's development. At this time you are likely to be very tired and possibly unsure of how to deal with all the demands that a new baby can make. A Maternity Nurse will give you the confidence to cope quickly and help you to develop the routines that will be best for you and your family over time. 

Not all Maternity Nurses have a formal qualification; most nurses tend to be very experienced nannies with extensive experience with newborn babies. Although there hasn’t been a specific Maternity Nurse qualification until recently, listed below are some of the qualifications that are recognised and appropriate to the profession:
  • Registered General Nurse (RGN)
  • Registered Sick Children’s Nurse (RSCN)
  • Registered Midwife (RM)
  • Registered Health Visitor (RHV)
  • Cache level 3 - old NNEB certificate (National Nursery Examination Board)
  • Diploma in Nursery Nursing
  • Midwifery & Nursing Diplomas, certificates and degrees
  • BTEC and NVQ in Childcare
  • City & Guilds (Caring Services)
  • NAMCW - National Association of Maternal and Child Welfare
  • Maternity Practitioner Award (MNT)

The more recent Maternity Nanny Training (MNT) course is an excellent way for nannies to obtain entry into the maternity profession and for more established nurses to obtain an update on current advice and practice. Affiliated courses are also run on postnatal depression, multiple births and paediatric first aid.

Maternity Nurses are advised to keep themselves up-to-date with current research and advice by renewing first aid certificates and by attending agency run breast-feeding and colic and reflux workshops.

We at London Governess, check all certificates where possible with the relevant awarding bodies for validity and authenticity. Although qualifications are useful, there are many Maternity Nurses who do not hold any formal qualifications but have years of experience within childcare and are excellent at caring for new born babies.




Tuesday, 19 March 2013

Advantages of London life for children


You might think that London is not a very child-friendly city but you'd be wrong. You may also think of London as an expensive city. Wrong again! There is always something going on and there are plenty of free things to do for children in London.




  • Wealth of great entertainment. The theatre brings fantastic musicals and plays, so there is always a show to go and see. 
  • London has some brilliant history, museums, art galleries, places of interest to visit. There is always something to do, so you will never be bored.
  • Beautiful parks. Hyde park, Regent's park, St James's park, Richmond park... Greenery, space, play grounds. Absolutely stunning.
  • Schools. Many parents consider English education to be the best.
  • If you work in central London or in the city of London, then expect to earn top wages. The pay is reasonable, depending on what kind of employment you are in. Employment in London is far better than anywhere else in Europe.
  • London brings many tourists from all over the world and most of them come to see Buckingham Palace. The Royal family gives London a great surge of prestige and history to its country, which makes it a great place to be proud to live in.
  • London has many great shops. Shopping in London is unique and fun.
  • The NHS Health care is free, which is a great advantage for everyone living here. It is difficult to get this kind of health care anywhere else in the world.
  • One other interesting thing about living in UK is watching television. Television here is great!
  • Also, London has a lot to offer for ambitious young people. There are, at present, some brilliant apprenticeships and courses for young people that want more for their education and work life today.

Monday, 18 March 2013

How TV affects your child


Television has the potential to impart information, inform opinion and provide relaxation. But it may also negatively impact on a child’s health and portray certain models and values to children before they are cognitively ready to separate fantasy or opinion from fact, or to critically assess what they are watching.


 The television-watching habits a child acquires as a pre-schooler are likely to stay with them for life, which means there is an opportunity to impart healthy lifestyle choices. So how do you avoid the pitfalls?

Negative impacts



Television may have a negative impact on children’s body composition in a number of ways, including:
  • Taking the place of physical activity
  • Increasing food intake by eating while watching
  • Effectively advertising high-fat and/or high-sugar foods
  • Slowing the body’s energy use.
Most children relax in front of the TV and don’t spend much energy. Foods are the most commonly advertised products on children’s TV, and ads for high-fat, high sugar foods predominate. Research consistently shows that they influence children’s food preferences.
Food intake in children increases after exposure to food ads, and they are more likely to choose advertised products. Young children are likely to see foods promoted as “good” and being healthy. One study showed that the nutritional knowledge and reasoning of early-primary school children decreased with the amount of television they watched. Greater TV use is associated with higher intakes of sugar, fatty and salty snacks and fizzy drinks, and lower intakes of fruit and vegetables.
As a group, foods advertised on TV are high in fat, saturated fat, protein, free sugars and salt, and low in fibre and some micro-nutrients. Attention: these are the kinds of food associated with obesity and dental caries in childhood and heart disease, diabetes and cancer in adulthood.

Unhealthy weight gain



One of the obvious problems with television is that it’s incredibly sedentary. Almost any other activity, even reading, burns more calories. There’s a direct correlation between hours of children’s TV viewing and weight – the more television, the greater the child’s weight. If a large television viewing habit continues into adulthood, it can increase the risk of chronic diseases.
Increasing hours spent watching TV is associated with increasing obesity, and this is worse for children who are otherwise not very active or who have a high fat intake. Recent studies show children who are heavily exposed to junk food advertising consume, on average, 40% more calories than children who watch ad-free television.
The relationship between obesity and television-watching is as true for the preschooler as it is for the older child. The excess weight accumulates over the years, so the younger a child starts logging up hours in front of the TV, the more years they have to accumulate fat. Children’s bodies have the least fat at around 4-6 years of age. The younger a child hits this point and then starts gaining body fat, the more likely they are to be obese in later life; so fatness in the pre-school age may have longterm consequences. Therefore, pre-schoolers regular active play is the best way to help prevent later obesity.

Effect on behaviour


Television exposes children to experiences that are not a normal part of their life. It has been known for some time that childhood exposure to media violence predicts aggressive behaviour in young adult males and females. This is more likely where the aggressive TV character is one that children identify with (the hero) and where they perceive the TV violence to be real.

Learning social norms


Children indirectly learn social norms by watching the way actors interact on television. These norms cover every aspect of human behaviour life from sex and violence to alcohol, nutrition and many other areas. Programs where characters regularly depict risky behaviours, such as constant snacking, smoking and excessive drinking, subtly communicate to children that these behaviours are acceptable, even “normal”.

Tips


  1. Television-watching should be a small part of life and not the default activity for when nothing structured is on. Creative play, reading and hobbies are preferable as primary pursuits. So how do you keep them away from the boTV? Minimise the number of TVs available. Don’t allow one in your child’s room. Have the TV positioned where you can keep an eye on what they’re watching and out of view of the dining room.
  2. Model good behaviour. Turn the TV on to watch a selected program and turn it off when you have finished. Don’t snack as you watch.
  3. When your child asks, “Can I watch TV?” ask them what they want to watch. Let them know what is going to happen when it finishes.
  4. Make tapes of programs of good educational content, for the times that you would like them to watch – for example, when they’re too sick for other activities. Choose ones that are educational and non-violent.
  5. Try to watch shows together and discuss them afterwards.
  6. Limit the hours of viewing. Limiting children’s total media time to no more than 1 to 2 hours per day – this includes all TV, videos, DVDs, Playstation, computer time etc. It recommends discouraging TV viewing for children under 2 and encouraging “interactive activities that promote proper brain development, such as talking, playing and reading together”.
  7. Don’t have the TV on during meals. They are an important time to be social with your children. Particularly avoid the news during mealtimes if you have young children. The concept that the day’s horrors are unlikely to happen to them may be hard for them to grasp. 

Everything in moderation



Like anything in life, watching television is something that’s fine in moderation. Television can entertain and educate children but this needs to be balanced with time for outdoor activities, socialising with other children and time spent with good role models.

Wednesday, 13 March 2013

Neutral?





Some parents decide they want a surprise and prefer not to know gender of their baby. But, what about decorating the nursery? Here are a few ideas to get you started.
 

The essentials



Okay, so you have a room/area chosen. There are a million things that could go in there. Many nurseries have the following basics:
  • A bed for baby.
  • A firm mattress.
  • Linen - be aware of which season your baby will be born in when choosing fabrics. Look for natural, breathable materials which can be especially helpful if your baby has eczema.
  • A change table, it can save your back and they often have handy spaces for storing stuff - nappies, wipes, creams etc.
  • A wardrobe or chest of drawers for the clothes.

Finishing touches



Indulge in a few key pieces to really bring the room together and give it your own unique flair.
  • Artwork - wall art displays add personality to a nursery, as shown by the framed pictures above.
  • A toy basket.
  • A book shelf.
  • Curtains - particularly handy if the room doesn’t get very dark during the day.
  • A lamp - consider one with a dimmer for night time feeds.
  • A rug - they look great and they’re excellent for tummy time!

By picking up individual bits and pieces based around a central theme, the room will feel more individual and creative. Another reason to keep the decor very simple so that the design of the room evolves as the individual tastes and interests of your child develop. Keeping things simple allows you to add touches to the room later. Remember, your baby only cares about one thing - being loved to bits by you. The rest is just icing. Whatever your budget, setting up the nursery for your impending bundle should be fun.
Enjoy!

Monday, 4 March 2013

No to sweet drinks


While breast, formula and cows milk contain the sugar lactose, they’re not considered to be sweet drinks. Milk is important for children as it contains calcium needed for healthy bones and teeth. For children less than 12 months old, breast milk or infant formula should be the main drink. Only offer plain full cream milk after 12 months, when your child has reduced breastfeeding or formula. Artificially sweetened or flavoured milk drinks are not recommended.

Fresh fruit is best

 

Luckily, it takes only half an orange to provide the vitamin C your child needs. Encourage children to eat fresh fruit instead of drinking juice. This will:
  • Help with skills such as peeling and chewing
  • Teach about different textures, colours and tastes
  • Supply fibre to the diet and help prevent constipation.

Problems with sweet drinks

 

Too many sweet drinks can cause a range of problems including: 

  • Excessive weight gain 

Sweet drinks are high in energy and may contribute to excessive weight gain in children if consumed regularly in large amounts.

  • Tooth decay 

Children who have sweet drinks such as cordial, soft drink and juice regularly are at risk of tooth decay. For babies and toddlers, problems start when a bottle is used for comfort when going to sleep, to suck during the night or to snack on during the day. If the bottle contains any drink other than water – even milk – the sugars in the fluid sit on the teeth and gums for some time. This is when decay can start, even before any teeth have broken through. Avoid using a feeding bottle for comfort and encourage your child to start drinking from a cup from about six months of age.

  • Small appetite 

Sweet drinks can fill children up, making them less hungry for other foods. For picky eaters, stopping or limiting sweet drinks is a helpful way to encourage your child’s hunger so that they eat more. Sweet drinks are lacking in protein, fat, iron and calcium needed for a child’s growth. When consumed too often, sweet drinks may cause a low intake of nutrients. Problems such as iron deficiency, anaemia and failure to thrive may occur in babies and toddlers who replace food such as breast milk, formula or solids with sweet drinks.

Suggestions for parents

 

Changing your child’s diet can be a challenge, but remember that young children can only eat or drink what is given to them. Suggestions include:
  • Avoid using a baby’s bottle to settle your child to sleep.
  • Be a role model by not keeping sweet drinks in the house or consuming sweet drinks yourself.
  • If your child is already used to sweet drinks, start to reduce their intake – for example, you could offer watered-down versions for a short time and then move on to water.
  • Be patient. This may take time, particularly if your child is in the habit of wanting juice or cordial whenever they are thirsty or hungry.
  • Encourage your child to eat fresh fruit instead of drinking fruit juice.
  • If you wish to include sweet drinks in your child’s diet, limit consumption to one small glass a day.
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Saturday, 2 March 2013

How your child learns to walk

Like all skills, learning to walk is a process that occurs in a sequence over a period of years. A child doesn't suddenly stand up and take off with a mature gait. It is not until about seven years of age that a child walks like an adult.

The process

Step One: Before children can walk, they need to learn to balance, such as in sitting, to shift their balance as occurs in crawling, and to develop power in their lower limbs. This is why children about six months of age love to be held standing and flex and straighten their knees, bouncing up and down.

Step Two: Later they learn to pull themselves up to stand using furniture or adult legs. They then prop themselves against furniture, freeing their hands to play with objects. As they get more confident they cruise around the furniture and later become adventurous, stretching to cross gaps.

Step Three: At first they can only get down by letting go and going bump. As their muscle strength and balance improves they lower themselves with control.
Many children begin pulling themselves up to stand at around eight months and take their first independent steps before a year. However, for most, walking independently occurs between 12 and 15 months.

What early walking looks like

At first children walk with their legs wide apart and take rapid short steps. The base makes it hard for them to centre their weight over the foot on the ground as the other leg comes forward. This makes them "toddle", which is why they are known as toddlers. They twist their trunk with each step and hold their arms out in front to help with balance. They strike the ground with their whole foot.

As they get better

In the second year they learn to stop, bend and twist without falling over. At around 18 months they start to run. At around two, toddlers can walk faster with longer, slower steps. They can walk upstairs, holding onto the rail, two feet per step. At about three they are striking the ground with their heel and lifting off from their toe. They are starting to swing their arms alternately. Walking on toes is common up to the age of three. If it persists past then or only involves one foot, have you should have your child assessed by your family doctor.

Pigeon-toed and bandy-legged

Children do not develop "straight" legs until about seven years of age. When children start walking they tend to be bandy-legged, pigeon-toed and look flat-footed. This often gets more noticeable in the first few months of walking but improves by about two years of age. From two years to three and a half years, the legs become more and more knock-kneed. At about six to seven years of age, children develop their adult leg alignment.

Flat footed

Infants have fat pads under their feet. They look flat-footed up until about the age of three. Many older children who are labelled flat-footed, are actually loose-jointed, so that their feet flatten when bearing weight. If such a child develops an arch when standing on tiptoes, he or she is not flat-footed. Most newborn babies have feet that curve in along the inside border. This mostly disappears by 18 months of age and keeps improving throughout childhood.

What constitutes a genuine problem?

It is important to sort out those few children who have genuine problems from the others who fall into the very wide range of normal. If your child's gait and limb development fits the above patterns, they are unlikely to have a problem. You should see your family doctor if the difference that concerns you:
  • persists beyond the normal age
  • is extreme, or affects only one side
  • is associated with other issues such as stiffness, weakness or other developmental problems.
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Friday, 1 March 2013

Baby boy names


A baby name is one of the biggest decisions you'll ever have to make. It's even bigger than choosing your wedding dress, first home, or any home for that matter, because your child will carry it throughout his entire life.


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It's the name that school children will rhyme with like words, the name that will go on his passport when he decides to leave the nest, the name he'll introduce himself by when he meets the love of his life and the name that he'll grow old with.

Choosing the perfect name for your baby can be a long and exhausting process full of compromise and negotiation. Bellow is the list that with with some name suggestions for you to work with.

Top 20 boy's names, UK, 2011:

1. Harry
2. Jack
3. Oliver
4. Charlie
5. Alfie
6. Jacob
7. Thomas
8. James
9. Riley
10. Ethan
11. Joshua
12. William
13. George
14. Max
15. Daniel
16. Noah
17. Oscar
18. Logan
19. Archie
20. Dylan.


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Thursday, 28 February 2013

When your child needs glasses






  • Children rarely complain of eye problems,
  • Children may not realise they can’t see well,
  • Some children can see well with one eye but have very poor vision in the other eye,
  • Children’s eyes may look OK and parents/carers might think that their child can see well but some children might still have a vision problem,
  • The only way to tell if a child has a vision problem is to have the child’s vision tested one eye at a time.

Learning that your child will need glasses, and possibly have other vision issues is a really difficult thing. Luckily, the Internet has made distance irrelevant, and everyone is able to connect with other parents going through the same issues. I’m hoping this guide can provide a bit of comfort and help at least with the glasses aspect.


Feeling upset, worried, and guilty

Many parents are overwhelmed and upset at the news that their child will have to wear glasses. Immediately, there are many issues to think about: worry about buying new glasses, worry that child would have life-long vision problems, worry that the child wouldn’t be able to keep them on, worry that the child would forever be known as the “child in glasses.” Don’t try to suppress your worries, but do know that it gets better, and know that you’re doing the right thing for them in helping them develop good vision. Many parents end up feeling guilty: that they didn’t notice early enough, or that they might be somehow responsible for their child’s vision problems. The signs can be very difficult to catch, especially with young children who are not yet, or only just becoming verbal. They’ve never known any difference in how they see, so they are not likely to complain. The vision problems are almost always the result of genetics, natural variations, or premature birth. In other words, not your fault. 

Finding a doctor

You will be taking to your child to their eye doctor a lot in the next few years. You’ll probably be there at least every 6 months, and quite possibly more often than that. Because of this, it is vital to find a doctor that you trust and who works well with your child. While many are very happy with the first doctor we visit, many have gone to 2, 3 or even 4 doctors to find one who will work for them.


Getting the glasses

There are more and more options for glasses for young children, but they’re not always available at every store. Ask around at different eye glasses shops to find out what kind of selection they have, and what their experience is in fitting frames to small faces. You will be in for adjustments a lot, so you want to be sure they’re used to seeing small children. Also ask about warranties, for both the frames and the lenses. The frames can get bent, or broken. The lenses will get scratched quite quickly. And your child’s prescription may change multiple times in a year. 

Getting the glasses to stay on

Many will tell you that once your child realises that they see better with their glasses, they’ll be much more likely to leave them on, and even ask for them first thing in the morning. And that’s true, but the trick is getting through that initial stage when they don’t want these funny things sitting on their face. Every child is different, some will take their glasses immediately, while others fight tooth and nail for months. About 65% of children will wear them well in a week or less, but about 15% of the kids take longer than a month before they’ll wear them reliably. Odds are your child will surprise you and will accept their glasses quickly, but if they don’t, know that you’r not alone in your struggles. While there are a lot of strategies to get your child to leave their glasses on, the key seems to be to stay calm and positive (which is easier said than done) and consistent about keeping them on (this is also easier said than done). When your child takes them off, put them back on with a smile, but don’t make a big deal about it. If they are really fighting or upset, set the glasses to the side for a few minutes until your child calms down and try again.


Other people’s reactions

You will get comments about your child’s glasses. Luckily, the comments are nearly always positive ones, though you’ll become practiced at answering the questions of how you knew your child needed glasses, and how doctors can figure out the prescription for children so young. As for other children, you’re more likely to have to deal with other children trying to take the glasses out of curiosity, or asking their own parents if they can have glasses.


Final thoughts

No one who has been here will tell you that this is easy, but you are not alone in this. Remember that you are doing the absolute best thing for your child and his or her vision by getting them treated early.
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Wednesday, 27 February 2013

Baby girl names

Your baby's name will define who they are. Choose carefully.

 

Names are now not only an identifier of the child, but often also representative of a time, place and importance to those who love them.

Choose the right name for your child!

Don't feel that you have to stick with family tradition when choosing the right baby name. If you really like a certain baby name, use it. Once your baby is born that name will be with them forever. So why would you settle for just any name.

Think of your child's future.

Don't mark your child with a name that will haunt him or her for the rest of their life. Many children are picked upon at school and the rest of their lives because of their name.

The initials can be devastating by themselves.

Make sure the first initials of the first, middle and last name do not spell anything undesirable. There are times that initials alone are required through life and having initials that spell obscene words can be very embarrassing. Most people do not look at the initials when making their baby name choices.

Keep your family member's names in the forefront of your mind.

You may want to name your child after a grandparent, parent or other family member. Maybe that's tradition and you want to keep that tradition. Or you might want to look at your family tree and choose the name of someone a little further back. Ask around the family to make sure other relatives are not considering the same name. Be mindful of other family members.

Don't be too creative with your child's name.

Being unique is sometimes confusing. If you are thinking of an alternative spelling for a name make sure that name exists. Your child will always have people spelling her or his name wrong if their name is not in the normal realm of thinking. Although unique names are now becoming more the norm. Think about all of those celebrity baby names. Artists are, by nature, creative and often give their children very creative names! Here are a few examples…think twice!
Satchel Seamus & Moses Amadeus Allen - Woody Allen & Mia Farrow
Zowie Bowie - David & Angela Bowie
Fifi-Trixibelle & Peaches Honeyblossom Geldof - Bob Geldof & Paula Yates
Kenya Julia Miambi Sarah Jones - Quincy Jones & Natassja Kinski

Why choose a symbolic name?

As well as providing a uniqueness and individuality, names with personal meaning also bestow a sense of roots and purpose on the child – because of the reasons behind the choice. And it’s something that they can carry with them for the rest of their lives, also passing onto their own children. It can therefore bring an added depth to the naming process, rather than simply picking a name from a book, which to many parents carries more emotional values.

Top 20 girl's names, UK, 2011:

1. Olivia
2. Lily
3. Sophie
4. Amelia
5. Emily
6. Jessica
7. Grace
8. Ava
9. Ruby
10. Mia
11. Chloe
12. Evie
13. Isabella
14. Sophia
15. Poppy
16. Isla
17. Ella
18. Lucy
19. Freya
20. Daisy.


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